What Are You Doing In Someone's Relationship?
The bride and groom arrive at the honeymoon suite, pull back the covers...and there a member of the wedding party is! What are you (or someone else) doing in someone's relationship? Disturbing, isn't it? I will tell you something that is more sick and disturbing than that. When someone interjects himself into the intimate relationship of a person and the Lord.
Three is community but Two is a relationship. You have heard the children's saying, “Two's company but three's a crowd”. There really is a universe of difference between 2 and 3. There is an abundance of laws and regulations, written and unwritten, that govern societies but a relationship remains mostly a mysterious secret.
While there is some possible safety in multiple counselors (but no wisdom) [Prov 11:14, 24:6], why is my relationship with God being criticized? Even I don't buy every “going to heaven to take a tour”...yet there are people who know God much better than I do. Would I be a fool to assume I am the standard by which all Christians must be compared? I find some of these “tours of heaven” personally aggravating but...why do some people consider themselves the perfect standard by which all of reality is judged? To classify others is childishness and foolishness.
If a man speaks in tongues it is to God and not to other people (1 Cor 14:2). (An exception is if tongues is connected to interpretation.)
Speaking with an angel may be rather rare but it cannot happen to anyone because it did not happen to the critics? That's arrogant beyond measurement.
Seeing demons is impossible because it did not happen to them? Amazing.
Getting insight from God on a subject is impossible because it didn't happen to them? Remarkable.
If someone had a bad marriage they may not believe someone else is enjoying theirs.
If someone does not know God he may not believe someone can be intimate with Him.
This is like going back to the third grade. Someone always believes your happiness cannot be true or that you can't have something that they do not. Do not allow someone to intimidate your walk with God, especially if they do not have a walk with God.
Jan. 19, 2026